Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Boundaries Oath

Wow! So I didn't know how much it meant for the hub to keep our life apart from his fellow marines until today. Although when we live together on base I will be more within that enviornment, but I guess still private in our new home... Anyways, it didn't really make any sense to me though, I wasn't very aware of how strongly he felt about it. So I was on my social network talking among some military spouses when something caught my eye on my news feed, the hub had posted a status on his own wall and others had commented (fellow marines). I thought since the hub wasn't replying to my messages he must've falling asleep like usual on me, I dont ever take it as anything bad. Besides, he has a long day and I figured like always he's tired! So I replied to the post not knowing he would take it to another level, whereas it left me very confused on the situtaion of why he got so upset at me for a simple reply. We went back and forth through messaging until I felt it was too silly and decided to call him and further my apology. Although I didn't really know what I was apologizing for or why he was so upset. So yes, we never argue or yell we talk it out and discuss, most likely it is always some kind of misunderstandings and we move past it the sameday; which I love_no grudges being held. Anyways so then I left it at that because he seemed he still didn't want to be bothered, but clearly things were resolved, just needed some space for the night. When I got a text after of him apologizing and said it was okay so speak to one another, that really cheered me up! Why the sudden change you ask?? Because he put on his fancy new robe and felt all his anger glide away. For now on I will make sure a comfy robe is always handy during his bad moods, haha!! I love you soo much <3 We are awesome!!

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